Why More Couples Are Choosing Unplugged Ceremonies (And Why I’m All for It)
Why More Couples Are Choosing Unplugged Ceremonies (And Why I’m All for It)
More and more couples are choosing to have unplugged ceremonies and it’s easy to see why. When phones are tucked away, your guests can be fully present, your photos stay clean and uninterrupted, and the focus stays exactly where it should be: on the two of you.
As a wedding photographer, I’ve seen firsthand the difference it makes when guests are fully present. Here’s why couples are making the switch, and why I wholeheartedly support it.
What Is an Unplugged Ceremony?
Simply put, it’s a ceremony where guests are asked to put their phones and cameras away. No photos. No videos. Just being in the moment. Often, there’s a small sign or announcement from the officiant before the ceremony starts.
Why This Trend Is Taking Off
1. Everyone Is Truly Present
An unplugged ceremony creates space for connection - real, emotional connection. When guests aren’t worried about capturing the moment themselves, they’re free to experience it. That means more tears, more laughter, and more heartfelt memories for everyone.
2. The Photos Are Better - Trust Me
Phones in the aisle, flashes going off, guests leaning into the aisle to get the shot - it can ruin an otherwise perfect image. When guests are unplugged, I can move freely, capture clean shots of your walk down the aisle, and photograph the emotion on your guests’ faces, not the backs of their phones.
3. It Reduces Distractions
The buzz of a notification or the glare of a phone screen can take away from the beauty and sacredness of your ceremony. An unplugged wedding keeps the focus exactly where it should be - on the two of you.
But What If Guests Want Photos?
Don’t worry - they’ll get them! I always make sure to deliver a beautiful, shareable gallery that your guests can access after the day. Many couples even choose to include a sneak peek in their thank-you emails or on social media.
How to Ask Guests to Unplug
A sign at the entrance - Something simple like “Welcome to our unplugged ceremony. We invite you to be fully present with us. Our photographer has it covered!”
An announcement - Have your officiant make a quick, friendly reminder before things begin.
Mention it on your wedding website or your wedding invitations - Let guests know ahead of time so they’re not surprised.
At the end of the day, your wedding is about presence - yours and your guests. And an unplugged ceremony is a small change that can make a big impact.
If you're planning your wedding and want more tips like this (or you're looking for a photographer who knows how to capture all the in-between moments), I’d love to chat.
Let’s make your day unforgettable - with no distractions.
